The mindshift
Acceptance and achievement
Human beings have two fundamental psychological needs: acceptance and achievement. When both are met, we feel grounded and can perform at a high level â we feel comfortable challenging and being challenged by others without acting defensively. Leaders can create this inclusive environment at an organizational level through a two-stage mindshift:
1. Think of yourself as a âcoachâ rather than a âmanagerâ
The higher you climb up the leadership ladder, the more important it is to be curious, ask questions, and encourage others to share their thoughts and feelings.
2. Create a framework where people feel empowered to take risks
If we want innovation, we need to create inclusivity, so people feel psychologically safe to contribute their full potential without fear of retribution.
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Five steps to make it happen
1. Develop awareness
Awareness of how we lead is critical. Often, we donât stop to question long-held assumptions. Becoming aware that we may be acting defensively based on past behaviors is an important step toward a growth mindshift. This requires self-reflection, practicing mindfulness or breathwork, and soliciting feedback from others regarding how our behavior impacts those around us to gain awareness of how we lead.
2. Take responsibility
This is about recognizing that we have power to choose rather than falling into a state of victimhood. It involves embracing a more responsible and inclusive form of leadership. Underlying this is the concept of agency: we can all intervene in our habitual responses and choose an alternative approach.
3. Mind your language!
Think about the terminology you use: so much of the vocabulary of business is based on metaphors of machinery and warfare (think âengines of growth,â âkey performance indicators,â or even âbullet pointsâ). Shift to using language that connotates something positive.
4. Listen actively
Practice active listening by showing interest in others, tuning into their non-verbal signals, and giving them your undivided attention.
5. Reflect on your actions
Schedule time for a short daily reflection and ask yourself simple questions, such as, âWhen did I have a fixed mindset today, and why?â or âWhen did I have a growth mindshift, and why?â
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