“The more senior you become in your career, the less true feedback you will receive,” said Sameh Abadir, Professor of Leadership and Negotiation at IMD.
Speaking in an interactive session on Leadership, Crisis and Stress Management at our signature program, Orchestrating Winning Performance in Dubai, Professor Abadir added that this means as your professional life progresses, the lonelier you will become.
This can make dealing with crisis situations – and even knowing that you are in one in the first place – even harder.
Lesson number one of being in a crisis and how to get out of it, is to acknowledge it, he said. But how do you know you are even in a crisis? It’s difficult, Abadir said, because often only the people around us know. “We are who we are, and unless the people around us tell us that we’re facing a crisis, we will keep doing business as usual and no one will know.”
Emotion high, logic off
Abadir, who served in the Egyptian Special Forces between 1985 and 1988, said he had learned five lessons on what typically happens in a crisis that have been partly informed by his time in the military. Number one, he said, is that “we do what we know, and people act with their reflexes. Emotion is turned up high, and logic is turned off. It’s like a heightened discussion with your family, when you lose your temper, are you thinking logically before you speak? Of course not.” Secondly, under severe stress it is impossible to predict a person’s behavior. “Some people have the ability to absorb it, some don’t,” Abadir said. “You need to surround yourself with a group of people you can trust, and it also really helps if you are physically fit.” Third, we have to save people’s energy for what can be an extremely stressful and tiring experience. “If you can let people walk, you should not ask them to run,” he said. “If they can sit, don’t ask them to stand.” Fourth, “make sure people working for you share bad news with you as soon as possible. You are more experienced so you can step back and look at the broader perspective, they can’t,” Abadir added. Fifth, and more important of all, Abadir says, “if you are ambushed, professionally or privately, the only way to survive is to counter attack.”Develop the skills to excel as a senior global leader
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